Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Where did we come from?

Cua and Chua Family Association stamp and S/S

I have long wondered when and where did the first Chua come from. Although I'm sure the answer is not as exciting as the origin of the Wolverine, I'm still curious.

The answer came by happenstance in June, when a representative of the Family Association came to me and asked me to write the blurb for the Philpost bulletin, which gives the background behind the Chua stamps and Souvenir Sheet (see Photo).

Being a lazy Chua descendant, I just copy (and paste) and quote from my file:
"Members of the Family pay reverential respect to founder Chua Tiong [the guy standing at left], who is regarded as the most honored ancestor of Cua and Chua clansmen. Chua Tiong was born more than 3,000 years ago, during the Jou Dynasty. The clan also deeply respects his father, Chua Siok To [the other guy], who is recognized as the grand ancestor of all members."

What is known among the Chinese and unknown to non-Orientals is that a Chinese cannot marry anyone with the same surname. A Chua cannot marry a Chua; a Wang cannot marry a Wang, and so on.

This fact triggers memory of a high school day at Chiang Kai-shek, when on the first day of class, a teacher, perusing our class cards, asked a new classmate why his had no middle name.

The new kid said (in Chinese), "I have none."

The irritated teacher snapped, "Look, even if your mother is dead, surely she has left behind her surname."

"She's alive," he replied, and asked permission to approach the teacher. After a brief, whispered discussion, the boy returned to his seat. The teacher quietly accepted his card, apparently learning that it's possible to exist legally and officially without a middle name.

At recess, Philip (now I remember his name through the mist of time) explained the mystery, followed by our murmurs of "Ahhhh!" to the key to such a simple quandary. "My father and mother have the same surname."

It is still considered unusual, if not incestuous, for Chinese of same surnames to mate, no matter how many strains may have intervened since the first Chua appeared. So Philip's parents had to go through many processes and expenses to remove his middle name.

There's more: my middle name is Chan, so marrying any other Chan in this planet is like marrying a first cousin, barely acceptable and, among strict clans, a miscegenation, a cause to be disowned.

Is it hard to be Chinese? Not really; besides, I kinda like the corny jokes about Chinese names, like, a Gina's love cannot be doubted if she consents to marry a Tan. Deeper is the love of a Malou who takes as spouse a Wang.

The jokes are lost in translation if you don't know Tagalog, but that's another topic. 

The complete stamp and First Day Cover series

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

My World

I never saw a wild thing sorry for himself.

A dog teaches a boy fidelity, perseverance, and to turn around
three times before lying down. --Robert Benchley

If I have any beliefs about immortality, it is that certain dogs
I have known will go to heaven, and very, very few p
--James Thurber

The average dog is a nicer person than the average person.
--Andy Rooney

If there are no dogs in Heaven, then when I die I want to go
where they went. --Will Rogers

Dog Poem
I think I could turn and live with animals,
they are so placid and contain'd,

I stand and look at them long and long.
They do not sweat and whine about their condition,
They do not lie awake in the dark and weep for their sins,
They do not make me sick discussing their duty to God,
Not one is dissatisfied, not one is demented
with the mania of owning things.
Not one kneels to another, nor to his kind that
lived thousands of years ago,
Not one is respectable or unhappy over the whole earth.
                                                               -- Walt Whitman, Leaves of Grass

I got the pictures from emails sent to me. I wish to give proper credit to those who made these pictures. I will appreciate any assistance toward that end. Meanwhile, their pictures, coupled with famous quotations, are contributing to some readers' enjoyment.